
Introduction
For the next six Sundays, we’ll be in the Book of Ruth, and this will take us to the end of August.
The German poet Goethe said, “no poet in the world has written a more beautiful short story” than the Book of Ruth and he described it as “the loveliest complete work on a small scale handed down to us.” And it’s hard to disagree.
Ruth is one of just two books in the Bible that are named after women, the other being Esther. But that’s not all these two books have in common. Both are at least partly set in a foreign land. Both involve a crisis carrying the threat of death. Both have unexpected twists that dramatically change the fortunes of the main characters. Both are romances, which end happily ever after.
Most significantly of all, and this is key, both Esther and Ruth explore the way God works imperceptibly but decisively behind the scenes in ordinary lives to accomplish his purposes.
As we know, sadly, romances don’t always end well. I once read about a post on Twitter, as it was then called, where someone said, “I'm tweeting to say I sent you an email explaining my voicemail about a note I left saying I'm leaving you because we don’t talk anymore.”
But this romance ends as well as any possibly can; with a royal bloodline that will feature in the genealogy of King David no less – and, even more importantly, of King Jesus. Humanly speaking, if there’s no Ruth, there’s no Jesus. And that’s the main reason why this book has such significance for Christians. But it’s not the only reason; there’s so much in here to enrich our faith. So let’s read the first 5 verses, which set the scene for the whole book.
In the days when the judges ruled, there was a famine in the land. So a man from Bethlehem in Judah, together
with his wife and two sons, went to live for a while in the country of Moab. The man’s name was Elimelek, his wife’s name was Naomi, and the names of his two sons were Mahlon and Kilion. They were Ephrathites from Bethlehem, Judah. And they went to Moab and lived there.
Now Elimelek, Naomi’s husband, died, and she was left with her two sons. They married Moabite women, one named Orpah and the other Ruth. After they had lived there about ten years, both Mahlon and Kilion also died, and Naomi was left without her two sons and her husband.
Background
The story of Ruth begins by situating her in historical context. It was, says v1, “in the days when the Judges ruled” which is a 300-year period that ends around 1,050 BC.
If your Bible is open at the book of Ruth, you can just glance over at the previous page and see that the very last verse of Judges gives you a concise summary of what life was like at that time; “In those days” it says, “Israel had no king; everyone did as they saw fit.” Everyone carried on as they pleased.
Very much like in our day and age, most people didn’t ever really stop to think about God and what he might want. The vast majority just went around doing whatever they felt like, whenever they felt like it.
And, because of that, surprise, surprise, these were dark and desperate days. The time of the Judges spanned three centuries of chronic spiritual malaise, with one crisis after another. It was a godless time. It was an age of ingrained corruption, and lawlessness and spiralling violence and sexual promiscuity.
It was in no sense the best of times. As C.J. Mahaney says, “If Charles Dickens were to write the opening line of this book, it would simply read, It was the worst of times.” God’s chosen people, whom he had graciously freed from centuries of slavery in Egypt to inherit a delightful new land, were behaving like the godless nations that had previously lived there.
That’s the unpromising background to Ruth, but we’re going to see in the next 5 weeks that God loves to do beautiful things in our bleakest crises.
Tragic irony 1: famine in the house of bread
There are three tragic ironies in the opening verses of this book that help us understand what God is saying here, and the first one is this: Bethlehem is surrounded by fertile wheat and barley fields. It’s a place of agricultural abundance.
Bethlehem means ‘house of bread’ but, irony of ironies, v1 tells us that the land is blighted by severe famine. Food has become scarce. Prices are shooting up. It is increasingly challenging to put daily bread on the table.
How can it be that a land once flowing with milk and honey is now experiencing food shortages? Is it simply “one of those things”? Is it purely a few years of freak weather leading to some bad harvests?
No, this is a display of God’s righteous correction, and it’s designed to turn the people of God back to the path of blessing. Remember what God said in Deuteronomy 28 when he set out for Israel the terms and conditions for living in the land he gave them.
He said, “The crops of your land and the young of your livestock—the calves of your herds and the lambs of your flocks, your basket and your kneading trough will be blessed... All these blessings will come on you and accompany you if you obey the Lord your God.”
“But if you do not fully obey the Lord your God and carefully follow his commandments… you will sow much seed in the land but you will harvest little.”
God always does what he says he will do. There’s no question that this is a setback sent by God to steer his wayward people back to their senses.
Verse 1 also introduces us to Elimelech, his wife Naomi, and their two sons. Elimelech decides to take his family to a neighbouring land.
Why do they head off to, of all places, Moab? Moab is only about 50 miles away and even though it’s an arid, barren country the other side of the Dead Sea, for some reason they are not, at this time, experiencing the same famine as Israel is.
Moab is a nation born in incest (you can read about it in Genesis 19) and it has a deserved reputation for depravity. They worship a demonic fertility god called Chemosh and even sacrifice their children to him. The Moabites are enemies of Israel, and they often raid the land and plunder it. They are neighbours from hell. Why would any Israelite relocate there?
It's because in those days, Israel had no king; everyone did their own thing. And when you do your own thing, without ever looking to God, you tend to come up with bad ideas.
Tragic irony 2: my God is king - except he isn’t
Here’s the second tragic irony. Elimelek means ‘My God is King’. But this man acts like he is in charge. There is no hint of living by faith, seeking God, asking for guidance, or praying for provision. Elimelek is a self-made man. He devises a human solution with man’s wisdom to every problem.
He should stay in Bethlehem, in the very land God promises to bless his obedient people. He should turn to God in repentance and cry out for mercy with everyone else. But he just does the first harebrained thing that enters his head, leading his family off to Moab.
But, if we’re honest, this is all too familiar. With our prayer tank empty, leaving us running on fumes, we often find ourselves managing our way out of our problems. Elimelek looks for a human answer to his family’s troubles, but it just leads him, literally, to a dead-end.
“Trust in the Lord”, says Proverbs 3.6, “with your whole heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. Acknowledge him in all your ways, and he will your paths straight.”
But Elimelek and Naomi do lean only on their own understanding. They think they can straighten out their paths all by themselves. And it is “all by themselves”; this does not appear to be a mass migration. Only Elimelek and his family, it seems, emigrate to Moab to escape this famine.
Like unchurched Christians, they sever their ties with God’s people, and they desert the land of milk and honey that God had promised them, hoping the grass is greener elsewhere.
But listen, it’s not by forgetting God’s promises, and leaving God’s people, and turning your back on the arena of God’s blessing that your problems magically vanish.
Do you ever get restless and bored in the place that God has placed you? Are you constantly feeling spiritually and emotionally disappointed, or dissatisfied? Are you tempted to wander away from God’s call on your life?
The Bible scholar Matthew Henry wisely writes, “It is evidence of a discontented, distrustful, unstable spirit, to be weary of the place in which God has set us, and to be for leaving it immediately whenever we meet with any uneasiness or inconvenience.”
I have known many Christians shaken in their faith by adversity. I have myself. We live in a spiritual battleground. Are we going to stand firm and come through it stronger?
Let’s make sure our exhausted souls are replenished with grace. Look for opportunities to pray with others, build others up and be encouraged by them.
Tragically though, some Christians drift away. Like Elimelek and Naomi, they try to manage on their own but end up slowly disconnecting from God and isolating themselves from the community of his people.
Some years ago, a disillusioned and burned-out missionary walked into a church. He didn’t really want to be there. He found churches like this one a bit annoying, so he sat at the back with every intention of dashing out as soon as the service was over.
Against all expectations, it did him a power of good. There was sung worship and really great preaching (also from Ruth incidentally).
The service host grabbed him at the door they got talking for a few minutes, and the conversation finished like this; “You know, we’re looking for someone exactly like you for a new ministry starting in three weeks’ time. Why don’t you send us your CV?” The church was St Michael’s Paris, the discouraged missionary was me and that chance conversation led to great personal restoration and ten happy, fruitful years on their ministry team.
And I learned something that day. When everything seems to be against you, and when God seems distant and silent, and when you’re discouraged and demotivated, that’s when you have to put yourself in the place where God is most likely to bless you; in his presence, among his people and under his word.
Verse 2 introduces us to the rest of the family; Naomi means “pleasant” or “sweet.” And the Book of Ruth confirms that she was well-named.
Mahlon and Kilion, their two sons, have the weirdest names. You might like the names Mahlon and Kilion. You might think they sound cute. But, I assure you, they’re not good names. Mahlon means “Sickly” and Kilion means “Poorly.” It’s like me introducing you to my two lovely boys, Birdflu and Herpes! We’ve got a little girl on the way, and we’re thinking of calling her Salmonella...
So Elimelek means “God is King” but he was king of his own life. Don’t make the same mistake.
Tragic irony 3: they move to avoid death - and then die
Here’s the third tragic irony. Elimelek taking his family to Moab is his plan to escape death and what happens? In v3, he dies.
Notice it doesn’t say how he dies. It doesn’t tell you if he had a heart attack, or fell off a roof, or got food poisoning, or got struck by lightning. It just says, he died. No one will ever know how - or why.
This is the first question we usually ask when someone dies unexpectedly isn’t it? “Why?” We always want to know why but we don’t always get to find out. There are mysteries in God we will never plumb the depths of. There are puzzles and enigmas in life we will never solve.
Deuteronomy 29.29 says, “The secret things belong to the Lord.” 1 Corinthians 13.12 says, “We only see a dim reflection, we only know in part.” One day, in eternity, we will understand fully. But, for now, we all live with questions that will remain unanswered all our lives.
But what we can say is that sorrows and heartbreaks are often crossroads in our lives which either drive us deeper into God or turn us away from him.
San Franciso based church leader John Ortberg says that if you ask atheists why they don’t believe in God, the number one reason will be suffering. But if you ask people who do believe in God when they spiritually grew the most, the number one answer will be, “when I came through a period of suffering.”
“Now Thank We All Our God” is the English translation of a German hymn from the 17th Century. If you’re not familiar with it, here’s the first verse:
Now thank we all our God with hearts and hands and voices,
who wondrous things has done, in whom his world rejoices;
who from our mothers' arms has blessed us on our way
with countless gifts of love, and still is ours today.
And so it goes on, speaking of “ever joyful hearts” and “cheer” and ending with “all praise and thanks to God.”
Martin Rinkart, the hymn’s composer, pastored a church in Eilenburg, about 15 miles from Leipzig. And he wrote it as his world crumbled around him. Now, we all thank our God, he wrote, but there was precious little to be thankful for. The Thirty Years’ War was raging through Europe, and the bubonic plague was spreading rapidly at that time.
During the height of the plague in 1637, Rinkart was the only surviving pastor in his town. He had to conduct over 4,000 funerals that year, that’s 11 per day, including his wife’s. The heartbreak!
This was the setting for that song of worship - social and political unrest, daily fear, life-threatening pandemic. But the hymn gives no hint of the turmoil of the time. Instead, it points to a bounteous God who meets every spiritual need in want and in plenty, in war and in peace, in sickness and in health.
The hymn soared in popularity. People desperate for light, desperate for relief, became renewed in faith and hope.
Romans 8 talks about groaning and grieving. We groan and we grieve. We suffer loss and affliction. But Romans 8 goes on to say that God will replace groaning and grieving with gladness and glory. And it says that what is to come, for those who love the Lord, will far, far outweigh our current suffering. In fact, in Romans 8.17-30, Paul mentions suffering twice, sighing three times, but glory four times.
And if you today are stuck in the valley of the shadow of death – and I know some of you are walking there right now – honestly, you may never know why your loved one died instead of recovering. You may never know why your prayers for healing, or for a job, or for a soulmate still go unanswered.
But as Martyn Lloyd-Jones used to say, “Don’t let the things you don’t know spoil the things you do know.”
What you do know is that God is always good, your Father is eternally for you, Jesus is still Lord, the Holy Spirit is your comforter, there is nothing that can separate you from his love, the devil is under Jesus’ feet, he’s soon going to be under ours too, the Bible is true, death has lost its sting, Christ has overcome, his yoke is easy, his burden is light, and his grace is sufficient for you.
Don’t let the things you don’t know spoil the things you do know.
Grief Upon Grief
For Naomi, the pain is not over. In v4 her sons marry outside the people of God. This was not totally forbidden like intermarrying with Canaanites was, but it was never God’s ideal. It was seen as unwise and ill advised, like marrying unbelievers is for Christians.
Because Mahlon and Kilion, like their dad, did as they saw fit, they got absorbed into the pagan culture around them. They let go of their God, who had delivered them from Egypt, to adopt the idols of Moab.
For any Christian parent, it is heartbreaking to watch your children drift away from the Lord. Never give up praying for them. Most people I have seen come to faith at Alpha down the years turned out to have had some kind of Christian experience or acquaintance in the past. Never underestimate the awesome power of a praying parent who never loses hope.
In v5 it’s rock bottom. The two sons die too. And Naomi is bereft. I don’t believe there is any human experience more painful than having to bury your own children.
Naomi’s husband was her breadwinner and he’s dead. Her sons would have assumed the role of providing for her in his place. Now they’re dead too. She’s now too old to have more children who could, one day, look after her. Her parents are probably dead as well, either from old age or in the famine.
There’s no social provision for childless widows - at all. She has no income, no savings, and no pension. She is destitute and penniless. And she’s stranded in a foreign country.
And all because she and her husband just did as they saw fit and left the Promised Land. Now she has no one from her own faith or even her own country.
Ending
David will pick up the story next week – I’m glad to say it gradually gets brighter as it goes on. And whatever mess we find ourselves in, whether it’s because of our own life choices or whether we’ve just been dealt a bad hand in life, by the grace of God there’s a way out.
But I want to end by looking to another man from Bethlehem, the house of bread, who revealed himself as the Bread of Life.
He never did what was right in his eyes, but only what he saw his heavenly Father doing. He said his food was to do the will of God.
He knew grief more than anyone else, being a man of sorrows familiar with suffering. His heart went out to a bereft widow about to bury her son and who said, “Don't cry” before raising him to life. He overcame death for good and will one day finally put an end to it.
I think he would say to each one of us today, “Whoever you are, whatever you’ve done, however you’ve got yourself here today, why don’t you open up your heart right now to receive grace for a brand-new start?”
Let’s pray...
Sermon preached at King's Church Darlington, 20 July 2025