Sunday, 12 May 2019

Unless I See... (John 20.24-31)




Introduction

One of the most famous boxing matches in the history of the sport was between Muhammad Ali and George Foreman for the Heavyweight Crown. The fight took place in Zaire (now DR Congo) and is known as “the rumble in the jungle”.

Foreman was a muscular and stocky man, built like an ox, and he absolutely pounded the leaner and more elegant Ali for seven full rounds. He landed punch after punch onto his opponent, who barely managed to get off the ropes.

It looked like a mismatch and everyone thought Foreman would be Champion of the World at the end of the contest.

But remarkably it was actually Ali’s intended strategy to soak up every punch until Foreman’s energy was spent, his arms heavy and stiff with lactic acid. In the eighth round, Ali suddenly danced off the ropes, and with just a few, well-aimed punches Foreman was on the canvas and counted out.

It’s a great metaphor for Good Friday and Easter Sunday. The devil had Jesus on the ropes: he landed every blow, he gave Jesus a relentless pounding, it was absolute carnage - and everyone thought he had won.

But Jesus, on his cross, was soaking all his evil up, and in the eighth round – or rather, on the third day – he rises from the grave, deals the devil an almighty and decisive, knockout blow and says, “take that.”

Never mind the rumble in the jungle, this is “the boss on the cross” and “kaboom from the tomb.” Jesus’ arm is raised and he is declared the victor.

Between Easter Day (late-April this year) and early June, we’re going through John’s account of the resurrection and the way it was experienced by several individuals; Mary Magdalene, John, Peter and Thomas.

Have you ever noticed how busy Jesus is after his resurrection?

It’s stunning. Put it this way; what would you do if you had just:
  • carried the full weight of the sins of the world
  • secured the salvation of a fallen and broken human race
  • totally satisfied and soaked up the wrath of God
  • given the hordes of hell a damned good thrashing
  • and triumphed over death in a ferocious and epic battle? 
If it was me, honestly, after all that - I’d be taking it easy. I’d take at least a couple of weeks off, reclining with cocktail and canapes by the swimming pool, nice head and shoulder massage, thalassotherapy, pedicure...

I think I’d have the whole spa treatment, gold package with all the optional extras. And frankly, I’d think I was worth it. But not Jesus... The risen Lord is a man on a mission.

The morning he is raised, having shrugged off the small inconvenience of an earthquake, Jesus bursts out of his tomb and off he goes, we know not where. Then, not long after, he’s back in the garden to appear to Mary Magdalene and give her instructions on what she needs to do next.

A bit later, according to Luke’s Gospel, he goes for a 15-mile walk to Emmaus, giving a stunning lecture on the entire Old Testament and its meaning (with no notes), in the punishing afternoon sun, and then back again.

Easter Sunday Evening

That same evening, as soon as he gets back to Jerusalem, Jesus appears to 10 of his disciples, behind locked doors. There they are, huddled together, terrified of being associated with a man who had been lynched by a mob, looking sorry for themselves in a way that only men can. But their encounter with the Lord leaves them overjoyed.

Thomas isn’t present at the time. It doesn’t say why. We can only speculate. Perhaps he has just slipped out to get some bread for supper.

My guess, for what it’s worth, is that his mind couldn’t cope with everything he had seen. Was he an introvert, a loner, one who found the company of others difficult? Did he feel maybe he just had to get out of the house, get some fresh air, be all alone and think it all through? That’s the way it feels to me.

You notice, incidentally, in John chapter 20, how we all handle grief differently.

  • Mary Magdalene - she needs to be close up and involved; she wants to actually touch the body and personally embalm it.
  • The ten disciples - they get together in a group, to vent their feelings and support each other emotionally.
  • Thomas - he seems to be more comfortable detached from the group, bottling it all up, and on his own.
Question: which of them does Jesus show himself to? Answer: all of them. And he meets them exactly where they are. Listen, however you react to the death of a loved one, if you know Jesus, he’ll walk with you through the valley of the shadow of death and you need fear no evil.

So, Thomas is away from the others, trying to make sense of it all. He has a lot to process; a sudden and traumatic end to the movement he believed in, his leader in whom he had put all his hopes is now dead and buried.

Judas has tragically ended his own life. And now (*pointing to temple*) some hysterical women are saying they have seen Jesus alive. Well, thinks Thomas, it’s probably just wishful thinking. Most likely some kind of coping mechanism…

What do we know about Thomas? Not very much. But enough to build up a definite impression.

It says in v24 that he had two names; Thomas and Didymus, which both mean “Twin.” Thomas is Aramaic and Didymus is Greek.

Whenever I tell people I once dated a twin, they usually ask if I ever got them mixed up. But it was easy to tell them apart actually. Jane had a small birth mark on her left hand and Jeremy had a moustache!

The thing about identical twins is that they can have the same physical features, the same mannerisms, the same temperament, the same height and build, but one is a follower of Jesus and the other is not.

No matter what family you come from, no matter what genetic make up you are born with, you have to decide for yourself whether Jesus is going to be Lord of your life or not.

Have you made up your mind yet? Sooner or later, we all have to get off the fence and say what we really think.

We don’t know anything about Thomas’ twin, and how he or she responded to Christ, but we do know that Thomas gave up everything to follow Jesus as a disciple. Never mind about how others in your family respond to Christ – what about you?

Well, if Peter was Tigger, Thomas was more like Eeyore. He appears to have been a bit downbeat and pessimistic. He was probably something of a melancholic.

Only three things he ever said are recorded in the Bible, and all of them support the hypothesis that he is not that guy who lights up the room. He is, of course, most well-known for his “I don’t believe it” speech in our reading today. He gives the impression of being analytical, sceptical, maybe even a bit cynical.

But he is also on record as saying, a bit gloomily (in John 14), “Lord, we have no idea where you’re going. So how do you expect us to know the road?”

He seems to have had a very literal, scientific mind. “Never mind vines and branches, tell us straight. What do you mean, the place you are preparing? Make it simple and understandable.” Thomas wants specifics, not symbols. He deals in facts, not figures of speech. Some of you are like that. That’s OK. Jesus chose Thomas to be his disciple.

The only other recorded words we have from Thomas are when they get bad news that Lazarus is terminally ill in John 11. And Thomas says, “Let us also go, that we may die with him.”

You could always count on Thomas to spread a bit of cheer. I bet the others were saying, “Thanks for sharing that with the group, Thomas.”

What a blessing it must have been spending days on end in a locked room with this guy...  

Maybe that’s why Thomas isn’t there when Jesus appears the first time! “Look, Thomas, here’s 25 shekels, why don’t you go out for a long walk and come back with some bagels for tea? Don’t feel you need to rush back, eh?”

So off he goes and when he returns (v25), now the men say they have seen Jesus too. In fact, in the Greek it means, they kept telling him, “We have seen the Lord!”

It’s Sunday – and the believers have come together. It’s church. That’s where we should be on the Lord’s day, if we can. Because, like Thomas, you can miss out on life-changing blessings by not being with other believers at the appointed time.

Hebrews 10.25 says, “Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another.”

It doesn’t have to be a big church; it doesn’t even have to be a good church. Jesus promises to be where even two or three are gathered in his name. And look, the first two Sundays of the new creation Jesus shows up both times. Thomas wasn’t in church that day and he missed out.

To be fair, we have to admit that some churches are really unwelcoming. Like in this passage, where the doors were locked (v26), sometimes, tragically, churches give you a stony reception; they’re unfriendly, impersonal, physically uncomfortable and boring. (Apart from that, they’ve got a lot going for them).

But all Christians should find a church where they can grow and then invest in it. That’s just a little aside.

Thomas comes back from his little walk and they all keep trying to tell him he’s missed a great service. “Ah, wow, the presence of the Lord – literally! It was, well, how can I put it? I can’t describe it. Thomas, you just had to be there.”

Thomas says, “Yeah, right. I don’t think so.” He thinks it’s some kind of practical joke.

“I need to see it for myself. I’ll believe it when I see the marks in his hands where those nails went. In fact, no. I need to feel as well as see. Unless I touch the holes where the nails went and the gash where they thrust the spear – give me a break.”

Thomas is not going to be taken in by some fantasy. He’s not prepared to take a leap into the dark. He’s a realist. He’s got a rational mind.

The very vocal atheist Richard Dawkins famously said, “Faith is the great cop-out, the great excuse to evade the need to think and evaluate evidence. Faith is belief in spite of… the lack of evidence.”

Thomas might actually agree with that. He doesn’t want to look an idiot; he doesn’t want to be gullible and naïve, just trusting what people say without any proof. He wants a peer-reviewed study or forget it.

Thomas has objections. He has problems. He has questions. That’s fair enough. This life from the dead thing is, after all, a bit weird.

By the way, (shameless commercial break now), the Alpha Course is such a great environment for exploring those questions about faith. We started on Thursday, but that was just an introductory evening; there’s still time to sign up and there’s plenty of room for you if you want to come.

One Week Later…

So, Thomas is naturally guarded. He says, “Let’s see some evidence first – and then we talk.”

  • A day passes. Nothing.
  • Then 2 days. Nothing again.
  • Wednesday comes and goes. Still nothing.
  • Four days. No sign of Jesus. I love the way Jesus lets Thomas stew…
  • Five days. Now the others are starting to wonder. “Was it a dream?”
  • Then, it’s the sabbath. It’s been 7 days now...
Thomas is thinking, “I told you so. It’s a figment of their imagination.”

Thomas is thinking, “I told you so. Flash in the pan. Hallucination is common at times of distress and grief. It’s probably a figment of their imagination.”

But 8 days later, again, the Lord’s Day, Jesus appears again - “Shalom. Peace be with you.” And, this time, Thomas is there.

Jesus stands among us and says to each one here who is not finding faith easy, like he did to Thomas, “Come close. Reach out. It’s me.”  

Notice that Jesus doesn’t heap guilt on him. He doesn’t judge or criticise or harp on about the past. There is no hint of condemnation. It’s just good news. “Shalom. I want to give you peace.”

It’s an awkward and embarrassing moment for Thomas because (v27) Jesus singles him out. But it is also a very eerie moment; because he says, “Put your finger here; see my hands. Reach out your hand and put it into my side. Stop doubting and believe.”

Do you see what this means? A shiver goes down Thomas’ spine. His analytical mind sees straightaway that, a week earlier, Jesus must have been listening to what the eleven had been saying in that locked room. He heard everything that Thomas said about the hands and side. Jesus had been in that room all the time.

The evidence that Thomas needed – or said he needed – was to see the nail marks in Jesus’ hands and to put his fingers there, perhaps in case the scars were painted on his skin by a makeup artist.

Does he step forward to touch the crucifixion wounds? Does he carry out a physical examination? Thomas doesn’t need to. It seems he cries out, “My Lord and my God” spontaneously and immediately and with conviction.

That encounter with Christ is enough. And his affirmation of faith goes further than anyone else in the whole New Testament, acclaiming Jesus as Lord and God. No human being had ever called Jesus that before. And it’s not just “you are the Lord, and you are God” – but “my Lord and my God.”

You are so blessed if you grew up in a believing family. That’s the best start in life you can have. But Jesus is mum and dad’s Lord and God, until you come under his lordship for yourself.

And look, v29, there’s a blessing for you if you believe in Jesus for yourself, without having seen him with your eyes. One day, we will all see him face to face.

Ending

As I end, I want to just draw your attention to v30-31. We didn’t have them read earlier, deliberately, because I wanted to highlight them separately.

“Jesus performed many other signs in the presence of his disciples, which are not recorded in this book. But these are written that you may believe that Jesus is the Messiah, the Son of God, and that by believing you may have life in his name.”

John is writing this Gospel down and he knows he’s nearly at the end. I love to picture him rolling back the parchment and scanning over everything he’s put down so far.

He’s had to be selective. He’s had to condense 3½ years of the greatest life ever lived into an essay that takes a couple of hours to read. And he thinks, “Oh man, there are so many other things I could have said. But I’ve said enough.”

Then he writes this; this is how it literally reads in the original: “These are written that you may go on believing that Jesus is the Messiah, the Son of God, and that by going on believing you may go on having life in his name.”

As the Christian author James Watkins once said, “A river cuts through rock, not because of its power, but because of its persistence.”

So, keep moving. Keep believing! Keep the faith. The more you keep going, the more you keep going. Don’t give up. Don’t slow down. Keep your eyes fixed on the Lord. And may you know the blessing of believing without having seen.

Let’s pray…


Sermon preached at All Saints' Preston on Tees, 12 May 2019

Sunday, 28 April 2019

Why Are You Crying? (John 20.11-18)



Introduction

One of the many distinctive features of our species is that we shed tears. Animals don’t cry, not emotionally anyway. Dogs sort of  whimper a bit, and crocodiles apparently lubricate their eyes when digesting their prey, but sobbing because you're emotional or sad is an experience unique to us in the created world.

But we cry because we’re human. According to YouGov research a few years ago, 66% of men and 93% of women say they have cried in the last year. Almost one in five women and one in twenty men admit that they cry at least once a week. Do women have a harder time than men or are they maybe just better at expressing emotion in a healthy way? Shedding tears is therapeutic; we all know what it is to feel better after having a good cry. Suppressing tears is supposed to be bad for your emotional wellbeing.

It’s part of our makeup in this fallen world. Human tear ducts are connected to the part in our brain that commands the emotions, so we cry when we suffer pain or trauma, when we feel lonely, when we empathise with someone else’s sorrow and most of all when we experience loss ourselves.

I have wept many times before and several times since, but I have never cried with the same intensity, with the same force, as I did when we lost twins through miscarriage back in the 1990s. Grief touches us all and when it grips us what can we do but shed tears at the graveside?

Mary Magdalene

So, there’s nothing strange or particularly noteworthy about the fact that when we find Mary Magdalene at the empty tomb on Easter morning, there are tears running down her face.

She’s gone at first light to wash Jesus’ body, hastily buried the previous Friday, and embalm it with spices. It was to be her last act of devotion for the Lord, to give him a decent burial, and now apparently some jobsworth has relocated the body, probably because the paperwork wasn’t quite right, and she can’t even do that.

When she gets to the grave, as we saw last Sunday, she finds the stone rolled away, and the grave has been disturbed. And all the emotion of the weekend gets the better of her; she can’t even have any closure and she just wells up and starts to sob.

She feels wretched. All she’s got are unanswered questions. Who’s taken the body? Where is it now? Why has it been moved? Who can I speak to about this?

She peers into the tomb again and two figures dressed in white are there. “Woman, why are you crying?” they say.

It’s pretty obvious why she’s crying. This is a graveyard. She’s been sniffing and weeping for three days, ever since her Lord was condemned to death. Her eyes are red and weary from constant crying. “They have taken my Lord away,” she says “and I don’t know where they have put him.”

Why did she love Jesus so much? Ancient tradition says she had been a prostitute although the Bible never says that. She is sometimes identified with an unnamed woman who had lived a sinful life in Mark’s Gospel who poured perfume on Jesus’ feet. No one can say for sure.

Luke’s gospel tells us that Jesus cast out seven demons from her. We don’t need let our fertile imaginations run wild about how that came about. All we need to know is what the Gospels tell us; when Mary Magdalene met Jesus, it took just one word of command from his mouth, and she was free at last, her hellish affliction was over.

Her body and her mind and her soul were made new. She felt alive again. She was forgiven everything. Her record was wiped clean.

No wonder she loved him and was so devoted to him! If the traditional view about her sex life is right, this may have been the first man in her life who ever treated her with dignity. But she loved him enough to stay to the very end at the cross and  she she loved him so much that she was first to arrive at the tomb.

She turns around, and who is standing there behind her but Jesus? 

She doesn’t recognise him. Have you ever wondered why not? It’s the last person she is expecting to see. She watched him die three days earlier. The last time she saw him, his head was crowned in thorns. His body was lacerated all over. And it was covered in dirt from falling into the dust under the weight of the cross and blood.

She watched his head drop and saw how his body suddenly hung limp and lifeless. She witnessed the spear piercing his side. She looked on as they took his cold body down from the cross. She watched as they laid him in the tomb and hastily covered him from head to toe with a linen burial cloth.  

She’d been there as her dreams died when he did.

Jesus asks the same question as the angels had asked shortly beforehand. “Why are you crying? Who is it you’re looking for?”

She thinks he’s just some bloke who keeps the cemetery looking nice. Maybe he knows. Maybe he knows where the paperwork is kept. Maybe he can help. “Sir,” she says, “if you have carried him away, tell me where you have put him; I need to see him.”

And then with one word, her whole world is undone and remade. “Mary!”

Reasons to Be Tearful

I want to use Mary Magdalene as a lens through which we see the Christian landscape today. In this fallen world that has turned its back on God, there are tears every day and everywhere. What a pitiful mess we’ve made of God’s world.

Why are you crying? Because, worldwide Christians are under unprecedented attack, as we saw again so tragically last Sunday. 80% of religiously motivated violence in the world today is against Christians. How does it feel to belong to the world’s most hated movement?

Why are you crying? Because Christian belief is under attack; atheism has found a renewed confidence to assault and discredit Christian faith, in particular with science, as if belief in God and the study of how the world works were enemies.

Why are you crying? Because Christian behaviour, as well as belief, seems to be condemned and sneered at more than ever. Everything is tolerated and even promoted now, except what God has revealed in his Holy Word which must be opposed and silenced at all costs.

Why are you crying? Because people keep telling us that the Christianity in our nation and the Church of England in particular is in terminal decline, hopelessly out of touch; nasty, judgmental people in near-empty buildings, mostly beyond repair.

Reasons to Be Cheerful

There are plenty of reasons to be tearful. But, for us, there are reasons to be cheerful.

For us who grieve over the godlessness of our world, the resurrection of Jesus changes everything. Jesus, the indestructible conqueror, looks at each one of us individually today and speaks our name.

And Jesus looks at us and says, “Why are you crying?” Just like it says in the Book of Revelation, “Do not weep! See, the Lion of the tribe of Judah, the Root of David, has triumphed.”

History shows that the more the gospel is attacked and opposed from the outside, the more the church just grows stronger.

Tragically, it also says that the gospel will be attacked and opposed from the inside, and that does far more damage. So, we need to be vigilant, and reject bad teaching which makes the church sick, and commend apostolic, biblical teaching that alone keeps the church healthy.

The New Testament tells us that while there will be increasing persecution and apostasy as the Lord’s return draws nearer, the church will become purer and more glorious, like a radiant bride all ready for her wedding day.

There are three things coming up I want to highlight that give us reasons to be cheerful.


1. Serve Teesside

Firstly, we’re going to be part of Serve Teesside. To those who say the church is weak and divided; a holy club only interested in itself we say this:

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We’re committed to serving and sending teams on two dates; Tuesday 25 June and Saturday 20 July. The Bible says the more you freely give away, the more God freely pours back in. So, as well as blessing our community, which is a great thing in itself, we get an added bonus of God blessing us even more than he already does.

There will be sign-up sheets out very soon for this. I really hope you’ll get involved if you can.

2. REACh Phase 3

Secondly, we are on course to deliver REACh phase 3 by the end of this year. So often, you hear about church buildings that are cold, dark, uncomfortable, musty-smelling, leaking, crumbling at the edges, and wasteful.

REACh is about getting this building fit for purpose for the rest of this century. It’s a debt we owe to the next generation. Phase 3 will give us a new, larger chapel – a place of prayer right at the heart of our building. It will feature some inspirational artwork that will add colour and a sense of movement to this space.

It will improve the ministry area here at the front; better lighting, clearer audio reproduction, enhanced projection quality, improved visibility for service leaders and preachers, more flexibility and, overall, a space much more put to use than at present.

Sacramentally, it will also feature a sunken baptistry to respond to the increased demand for immersion baptism and it will bring the Communion Table and the people much closer together.

We want our worship to be the very best it can be to God’s glory, and the REACh steering group and PCC are confident that this will really enhance what we do here week by week.

3. Newtown Church Plant

And thirdly, we are now just two years away from sending out a team to plant something new in Newtown. We already have a dozen people committed to the great adventure of forming a new, dynamic congregation at Saint Paul’s.

Our goal is to send more like 30 and, in addition to that, hopefully pick up a few from neighbouring churches in the deanery as well.

We believe God is in this and he is going to do extraordinary things. Let me give you just one example of why we think this: February last year a woman called Margaret attended dear Doreen Allinson’s funeral. She was so blown away by what she experienced that she started coming here on Sundays.

Then, some months later, she learned that we were going to be planting a congregation in Newtown. That really excited her because seven years earlier she felt God prompting her to pray for that very area.

By the time we send out our team, she will have been laying foundations in intercession for almost a decade. And she is going there as part of the team to lead the 24/7 prayer there. A member of their congregation has been longing for and praying for a powerful move of the Holy Spirit in that church for 20 years.

God is really in this and all the forces of hell are not going to be able to stop it!

Over the next two years, Paul and his people already there are going to be spending serious money to get that building fit for purpose; a new heating system, double glazing, comfortable chairs, better flooring, and a café area. Our vision is for it to be in use all week.

This year, we are submitting a bid for central Church of England funding that will enable us to really support this venture with additional employed staff. Early indications are that our bid will be looked on very favourably.

At the same time, we’re making a start to get to know people in the area and build bridges. Another God thing that happened a few weeks ago; someone came to Paul and me and said, “I’ve been given some funding for mission, about £1,000, and thought of you in Newtown.”

We said, “Why not put on a barbecue in July, open to all, with free food, invite the whole area and start to ask people, “What would you like this church to be doing for you?” So that’s what we’re going to do.

There’s a reason why God has filled this church up with strong, faith-filled, experienced people over the last few years; some are going to be sent back out as an apostolic team in what will be the adventure of a lifetime. Is God stirring you? Can you hear him calling?

Ending

Why are you crying? Look at Jesus’ next words to Mary Magdalene in v17; “Don’t hold on to me here – but go and tell!” So off she runs telling the men “I’ve seen the Lord!”

The very first evangelist of the resurrection. And we know what happened next. Once she was obedient to the Lord’s voice, and went, others saw the risen Lord too. That’s what it’s going to be like when we send our team out from here.

Why are you crying? The Lord is right here! Turn around, there he is, risen and triumphant. And, with him, the future looks exhilarating.

Let’s pray.


Sermon preached at All Saints' Preston on Tees, 28 April 2019

Sunday, 21 April 2019

Seeing Is Believing (John 20.1-10)



Introduction

A few weeks ago, I was walking around the churchyard at Long Newton. Many of the limestone and granite tomb stones were weathered and mossy; on some the words of the epitaph were no longer legible.

A cemetery is, for most people, where it all ends. But it’s in a cemetery where Christianity begins. It’s all about the resurrection.

In fact, the Australian academic Professor Gerald O’ Collins writes: “In a profound sense, Christianity without the resurrection is not simply Christianity without its final chapter. It is not Christianity at all.”

Setting the Scene

Let’s take a journey in time back to the first Easter morning, around 30AD.

We find ourselves in a small landscaped estate, tidily cultivated with shrubs and succulents, and around which there are several tombs hewn out of the rock. Each one is concealed by a large disc-shaped stone, weighing about 1.3 tons, lying in a groove that slopes down to make it easy to close, and difficult to open.

Verse 1 tells us that Mary Magdalene leaves for the tomb while it is still dark and, from the other Gospels, we know that she met two other women on the way who then accompanied her.

They see the grave has been disturbed, so Mary Magdalene runs back to tell John and Peter, leaving the others standing there, lost for words.

A pagan philosopher called Celsus, who died in 180AD, called Christians “A council of frogs in the marsh, a synod of worms on a dung hill.” And he dismissed the resurrection as fake news. He said, “You can’t accept the resurrection because it is based on the testimony of women.”

Nobody took women seriously in that culture, and the Gospel writers took a risk by stating that the first witnesses of the resurrection were women – but they recorded it anyway because that is what happened.

All we’ve got in our passage this morning is the puzzle of an empty tomb but no sighting yet of a risen Saviour.

Mary Magdalene is not expecting a resurrection at all. She has only one category for processing what she sees – and it’s that someone, between sunset on Friday and sunrise on Sunday has opened the tomb and relocated the body. 

Verse 2; “They have taken the Lord out of the tomb, and we don’t know where they have put him.” That, for her, is the only possible explanation.

Peter and John, no doubt upset that their hero’s tomb has been desecrated, dash for the tomb.

Notice in v4 that John arrives first. Why? Because John was much younger, so Peter was older and, you may have noticed, as you get older, you slow down. 

I am 57 and I’m still able to run up the stairs. 10 years ago, I ran up the stairs, but my breathing sounded the same at the top as it had at the bottom. Now, I’m a little breathless when I reach the landing. 10 years from now – if I’m still here – I may look back with misty eyes to the era when I could do that. 

Maybe most of us can relate to Peter this morning. In a two-horse race we know we’d be the runner up…

But we know what Peter’s like, don’t we? If he were a car, he’d have no reverse gear; in fact, he’d have no brakes either. Naturally impulsive. Whether or not it needs to be said, he’ll say it. Whether or not it should be done, you know he’ll do it.

So, despite arriving after John, it’s no surprise that, without hesitation, decorum or precaution, he just walks straight in.

One of the striking things about Jesus’ ministry is the reaction of onlookers.

All the Gospel writers use three different terms for this reaction, as if building into a crescendo of wonder. The first Greek word means to marvel at something breath-taking, like a firework display or the Niagara Falls.

The second word derives from a verb meaning to physically strike someone. We might say in English ‘bowled over’ or ‘knocked sideways’ by something.

The third word has the sense of being so astounded that all your previous categories for reality simply fail, and your preconceptions become undone.

But this language is mostly attached to Jesus’ early ministry. As we move into the accounts of Jesus’ passion, crucifixion and resurrection there is a gear shift.

You might have thought that they’d ramp the language up a notch when it comes to the resurrection – and that’s what you would do if you were writing fiction – but the language of ‘wonder’ and ‘amazement’ is almost absent. 

What we actually find, in all four Gospels, concerning the resurrection is a sense of bafflement, bewilderment and disorientation. 

Mary Magdalene doesn’t understand. Peter doesn’t get it either. In Luke’s Gospel, it says, “Peter… got up and ran to the tomb. Bending over, he saw the strips of linen lying by themselves, and went away, wondering to himself what had happened.”

Only for John is seeing believing. In v8, it says, “finally, the other disciple who had reached the tomb first, went inside.”

Why did he hesitate? Was he just a bit freaked out about going into a creepy burial chamber on his own? It's understandable. Wouldn't you be? Was he perhaps upset that his friend’s final resting place might have been disturbed, even desecrated?

Actually, it wasn’t a final resting place, it was just a resting place. Jesus was already raised and at the end of v8 it simply says of John, “He saw and believed.”

What did he see? An empty grave with the strips of linen cloth lying in their place. How many of you men ever fold sheets? Was it the fact that a man actually thought to make the bed proof to John that a miracle must have taken place?

There are two reasons why John saw and believed.

1. He saw no body

First, he saw no body. Tomb raiders, very common in those days, only took what was of value to them, and left everything else.

Remember, two days earlier, soldiers played dice for the robe that had mockingly been put on Jesus. Fine linen, the sort that a wealthy individual like Joseph of Arimathea would have, was costly and there was a market for it. A dead body, disfigured by blood, was worth nothing to anyone.

But the body was gone. And the linen was still there. The penny dropped; nobody had broken into that tomb. And that could only mean one thing – somebody must have broken out of it!

2. He saw the grave clothes completely undisturbed

But it wasn’t just that the linen was there. It was the shape of them. When they buried a body in those days, they wrapped it in about 30-40 metres of linen. And they didn’t just lay the corpse between two sheets like the image on the Turin Shroud.

No, they wound the cloth round and round the body, beginning with the feet and wrapping it, up to the shoulders, sprinkling spices as they did to mask the foul smell of decomposition.

Then, they took a shorter cloth and starting at the eyes, they wound it around the head and neck, until the two cloths met.

What John saw (v6-7) was the two cloths still wrapped around, but no body inside the wrapping. It’s as if the body passed through the cloths, leaving them like a discarded cocoon.

Ending

Verse 9 says they had all this in their Bibles all the time but they didn’t see it.

They could have looked at Psalm 16, which we had read today:

My body also will rest secure,
because you will not abandon me to the realm of the dead,
nor will you let your faithful one see decay.

They could have looked at Isaiah 53:

He was despised and rejected,
a man of suffering, and familiar with pain.
He was cut off from the land of the living;
for the sin of my people he was punished.
He was assigned a grave with the wicked,
and with the rich in his death.
After he has suffered,
he will see the light of life and be satisfied.

They could have seen it all over in the Old Testament, if only they had eyes to see. 

Many people in Britain today have a Bible on a shelf somewhere, no doubt collecting dust? “They still did not understand from Scripture that Jesus had to rise from the dead.”

How many, like Peter and Mary Magdalene, are confused and bewildered? How many have begun to understand, like John, that here is the key to life - in this world and the next?

Let’s pray…



Short sermon preached at All Saints' Preston on Tees, 21 April 2019

Sunday, 24 March 2019

Godly Wisdom - Friendship (Proverbs 12.26, 14.95, 17.17, 18.24, 20.21, 22.11, 23.20-21, 27.6 and 27.9)


Introduction

I’m going to start by reading three short quotes about friendship. One is from John Lennon, one is from Jennifer Aniston and one is from Winnie the Pooh. See if you can guess which quote belongs to which personality…

Quote number 1: “There's nothing like a really loyal, dependable, good friend. Nothing.”

Quote number 2: “If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.”

And quote number 3: “Being honest may not get you a lot of friends, but it’ll always get you the right ones.”

Well, I’ll put you out of your misery. The first was Jennifer Aniston. The second was Winnie the Pooh.

So the third was John Lennon. It’s weird that John Lennon’s parents named their son after an airport in Liverpool isn’t? But maybe that’s why his band took off…

Friendship has taken on a new dimension since social media became a thing hasn’t it? I checked last week and found to my amazement that I have 770 friends. And that’s just the ones who use Facebook.

I felt really well-liked and popular, but this morning when I checked again, guess what? The number has gone down to 769. Somebody has unfriended me. Raise your hand if it was you!

Somebody has thought to himself or herself this week, “Right, I’m removing John Lambert from my life - in one click. I don’t really care what he’s doing, his posts are annoying, and I don’t want him looking into my world anymore. Unfriend. There, that’s better!” I think I need counselling after that…

Friendship in the World and the Church

There’s an old African proverb, not in the Bible but wise advice that says, “If you want to go quickly, you travel alone, but if you want to go far, then you must travel together.”

The world has a lot to say about friendship, and so does God in the Bible.

In the Old Testament, both Abraham and Moses were called a friend of God. I wonder what it was about their life that people thought that is what they should be called? Would you call yourself a friend of God?

Friendship is a recurring theme in the Book of Proverbs, as we’ll see shortly.

When we get to the New Testament, we cannot fail to notice that Jesus built his whole ministry on friendship and community. He ate and drank with people every day and was sneeringly called “a friend of tax collectors and sinners.”

When he healed a paralysed man he said, “Friend, your sins are forgiven.”

He said to his disciples, “I no longer call you servants; I have called you friends. You are my friends if you do what I command.”

Even Judas, the traitor, the thief, the defector, at the very moment when he was about to walk out and betray him, Jesus looked at him and said, “What you are about to do, do it quickly, friend.”

My mum used to take me to church when I was growing up and we used to go in, say the mass, and then go home again, having had zero human contact with anyone. That was it. Nothing more was expected. No one even really looked at each other. There was just no concept at all of fellowship or community.

But in the New Testament era Peter, Paul, John, Jude and the writer of Hebrews all address members of the churches they write to in their letters as “my dear friends.

You see, friendship is central to building strong and healthy churches. Friendship is key. The Californian megachurch pastor Rick Warren once said, “People are not looking for a friendly church. They are looking for a church where they can make friends.”

In other words, people don’t want to belong to a church that’s all talk and big smiles. Every church likes to think it’s warm and welcoming. But people are looking for more than a handshake at the door when they come in; they want friendship, relationship and companionship – other people with whom they can do life.

Proverbs on Friendship

If you’ve been away over the last couple of weeks, we’ve been looking at the Book of Proverbs in the Bible and we’ve seen that it’s a practical book of Godly wisdom for everyday life.

Proverbs are perceptive but common-sense observations about the way life works out most of the time. As we saw a couple of weeks ago, you can always find rare exceptions, but exceptions make the rule. 99 times out of 100, things go a certain way.

The Proverbs teach that generally speaking, on the whole, things tend to work out OK for wise people who work hard, who watch their words, who are prudent with money, who eat and drink in moderation, and who make moral choices according to the Maker’s Instructions.

And if an entire country is led to live righteously that nation will tend to prosper and thrive. That’s why in Proverbs 14 it says, “Righteousness exalts a nation, but sin is a reproach to any people.”

You can usually tell which countries are enjoying God’s favour and which are under his judgment by assessing how stable they are and noting what sort of standards are held in honour. I’ll leave you to make up your own mind about where you think we are at the moment.

It’s not a coincidence that the fortunes of Israel were at their height during the reign of David, their best king; a flawed king certainly, but the one with a heart for God.

Solomon, his heir who wrote many of these Proverbs down, spoke them as fatherly advice to his son. Which is ironic as Solomon didn’t really listen to his own dad, King David. Instead, the generation after Solomon followed his lead; there was civil war and idolatry and after a few hundred years Israel lost everything.

“Righteousness exalts a nation, but sin is a reproach to any people.”

But we’re looking at Proverbs on the theme of friendship today. And there’s quite a lot in there about that subject.

I’m going to list five qualities of a good friend; a good friend is frank with you, gives you good advice, cares about you, inspires you and is always there for you. I’ve alliterated them as candour, counsel, care, character and constancy.

I want you to ask God two questions as I go through this list. The first question is “Lord, what sort of friend do you want me to be?” And the second is “Lord, who are you calling me to befriend?”

1. Candour

The first quality of a good friend, I’ll call candour. A good friend will tell you the truth and be frank with you, even if it’s hard to say and painful to hear.

Proverbs 27.6 says, “Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses.”

That verse always reminds me of Judas…

If you’ve ever had to have surgery, you know that it’s a very uncomfortable experience. You have to have anaesthetic, which is no small matter. You are sliced open with a sharp knife. Your internal organs are messed about with. They stitch you, or staple you, back together. Then, you are sore for days, sometimes weeks.

But a surgeon, cuts you not to harm you but to heal you, and real friends are not afraid to do likewise. True friends love you too much to watch you make a mess of your life so they are able to be brutally honest with you.

John Wimber used to say, “One question you never want to ask God is, ‘what’s wrong with me?’ – because he’ll tell you.” Thats because he loves you.

What a friend we have in Jesus; Jesus didn’t pamper or indulge his disciples. When it was necessary, he set them right. He didn’t get angry with them, but he did tell them the uncomfortable truth about themselves, even if it stung at times.

Lord, what sort of friend do you want me to be?” “Lord, who are you calling me to befriend?”

2. Counsel

Secondly, counsel - a good friend will give you valuable advice.

Proverbs 27.9 says, “Perfume and incense bring joy to the heart, and the pleasantness of a friend springs from their heartfelt advice.”

Someone I know accompanied a friend of his, who was a new Christian, to the hospital – and he’d never been in before so he was a bit nervous. He was given a form to fill in which asked “What religion are you?” Well, he wasn’t into all these Catholic, Church of England or Methodist labels. He said, “I’m just a Christian” and he didn’t really know which box to tick.

So he asked his friend, “What do you think I should put?” His friend said, “My advice is to check out the chaplaincy team on the hospital website and either write down the religion of the one who looks most likely to cheer you up in the Lord, or the one who most looks like he needs witnessing to!” That’s good advice.

Kathie is invaluable for advice. She just has a sixth sense for the right thing to do. Should I phone? Should I phone now, even though it’s late? Would a card be better? Is this card appropriate? Do you think I should wear a tie? Flowers, chocolates or a bottle of wine? What do you think? She saves me from a million calamities. 

Actually, she accidentally slammed the car boot on my head on Friday, so she creates the odd calamity as well, but it’s a small price to pay…

What a friend we have in Jesus; they came to him all confused in private and asked him stuff and he patiently set them right.

Lord, what sort of friend do you want me to be?” “Lord, who are you calling me to befriend?”

3. Care

Thirdly, care - a good friend will have your best interests at heart.

Proverbs 12.26 says, “The righteous choose their friends carefully, but the way of the wicked leads them astray.”

Good friends inspire you and improve you because they want what’s good for you and, because they care about you and take an interest in you; you matter to them.

Other friends will just lead you astray. They don’t really care about you at all. 

What a friend we have in Jesus; he cared about the leper, about the woman caught in adultery, about the blind beggar, about the widow about to bury her son, and everybody else. He looked out on the crowds and had compassion on them because they were like sheep without a shepherd.

Lord, what sort of friend do you want me to be?” “Lord, who are you calling me to befriend?”

4. Character

Fourthly, character – a good friend’s better qualities will rub off on you.

How many times has it been said in a court of law, “Your honour, it all started when I fell into the wrong crowd”?

Proverbs 23.20-21 says, “Do not join those who drink too much wine or gorge themselves on meat, for drunkards and gluttons become poor, and drowsiness clothes them in rags.”

The friends we choose have a significant impact on us, for better or for worse. My parents used to smile when I brought home friends who they thought would be a good influence on me.

But, as it says in 1 Corinthians, “bad company corrupts good character.” Once, when I was about 16, I graffitied an entire train carriage with a mate of mine. I never would have done that alone, or with any of my better friends. So most of the time my parents would frown because they saw the kids I hung out with as a bad influence on me.

What a friend we have in Jesus; on the very last night before he died, he looked back over the three years he had spent with his disciples and he said to them, “You have already been pruned and purified by the word I have spoken to you.”

His character rubbed off on them so much so that several weeks later when they were turning Jerusalem upside down, people said, “Ah, these people have been with Jesus.”

Lord, what sort of friend do you want me to be?”  “Lord, who are you calling me to befriend?”

5. Constancy

And the fifth quality of a good friend is constancy - a good friend will be there for you in trouble and not let you down.

Proverbs 17.17 says, “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity.”

A young woman who had just come to faith asked the great Victorian preacher C.H. Spurgeon, “How many of my friends should I give up now I am a believer?” He said, “Don’t bother, they’ll give up on you soon enough.”

I lost quite a few of my friends pretty quickly after I became a Christian. I must be honest and admit that I was very full of zeal and a bit insensitive as a new believer. So, it was largely my fault.

But the best friends are loyal and stick by you. They don’t give up on you. They believe in you. Even if you disappoint them, they forgive you and restore you. True, deep, real friendships are a fantastic defence in times of discouragement.

Proverbs 18.24 says, “There is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.”

If you know the Bible well, think of David and Jonathan or Ruth and Naomi; deep supportive friendships; nothing could separate them.

And what a friend we have in Jesus; his last words to his followers in Matthew’s Gospel were, “I will be with you till the end of the age.”

Lord, what sort of friend do you want me to be?” “Lord, who are you calling me to befriend?”

Ending

As I close, I want to mention a man called Dale Carnegie, who developed training courses in interpersonal skills. He had a lot to say about how you make friends and influence people. In fact, he wrote a book called exactly that, and I’m sure you’ve heard of it.

One of the things he said is, “You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.” Now, that’s not in the Bible, but it’s wise advice. You take an interest in others, instead of being absorbed in your own world, and you watch how your friendships grow and deepen.

Jesus exemplifies that. However stretched he was, he always seemed to have time for people. Wealthy people like Levi, beggars like Bartimaeus, whores like Mary Magdalene, crooks like Zacchaeus, intellectuals like Nicodemus, Romans like the centurion, widows, children, labourers, lawyers… you name it…

What sort of friend does God want you to be? Who is he calling you to befriend?

Proverbs 22.11; “One who loves a pure heart and who speaks with grace will have the king for a friend.” Maybe even the King of kings…

Let’s pray…


Sermon preached at All Saints Preston on Tees, 24 March 2019