Saturday, 12 January 2019

Blessed Are Those Who Mourn (Matthew 5.4)


Introduction

So we’ve started a series of talks on Matthew 5.1-12, taking us through to the end of February, and we’re going to be focusing, one by one, on the various blessings that Jesus promises in these verses.

Briefly, for the benefit of those who weren’t here last week, and for those who were here but who struggled to stay awake (it was me preaching after all), we saw that before these verses say anything about us, they tell us a lot about God and what he is like. Our God is a God who blesses and who loves to bless.

The word ‘blessed’ (used nine times in this short passage) comes from the Greek word makarios. It says ‘blessed’ in our church Bibles but it literally means ‘happy,’ and in some versions of the Bible that’s the way the word is translated. 

To be blessed by God, and know it, is to find life’s deepest satisfaction and contentment in Christ.

The Greeks used to call the island of Cyprus hé makaria (which is the feminine form of this same word, makarios). It means ‘The Happy Isle.’ 

And they called it that because they thought that Cyprus was so beautiful, so rich, so fertile an island that you have all you need there for a perfectly blissful, happy life. There was nowhere better on earth. Obviously, they hadn’t been to Canvey Island or Redcar…

But Cyprus, and its lovely, sun-blessed climate, its stunning landscapes, its delightful views of the warm, blue Mediterranean Sea, its exotic flora, its wonderful fruit, and its valuable minerals and natural resources to the Greeks was everything you need for a happy life.

That’s a material picture of what God wants to give you spiritually.

Remember, those who tended to hang around Jesus were outcasts. Unreformed alcoholics, unloved prostitutes, unemployable rejects, untouchable lepers, unpopular traitors, unfortunate losers… they didn’t feel blessed at all.

But Matthew 5.1-12 is a list of the kind of downcast and dispirited people the Lord wants to bless.

These blessings speak of a life that pain and grief and sorrow and loss are powerless to spoil.

Nothing in life or death can rob you of what God wants to give you, especially if life has been unkind to you. And Jesus said to his closest followers, “No one will take away your joy.” Blessed, blessed, blessed are you.

Mourning

Last week, we saw that God blesses people who are poor in spirit, meaning those who in their utter helplessness and spiritual bankruptcy, put their whole trust in God. 

If you’re poor in spirit, Jesus says that the inexhaustible riches of the kingdom will all be yours; the things we all want and need, (but money and wealth cannot buy). Mercy, forgiveness, joy, inner peace, eternal life… all come to those who are poor in spirit. 



This week, the blessing we’re looking at in v4 is really strange. Jesus says, “Blessed are those who mourn.” It’s almost to say, “Happy are those who are unhappy.”

Remember that Jesus first spoke these words over ordinary people in first century Galilee. For the last 600 years they had been almost constantly oppressed and put down.

They were harassed and hounded by the Philistines, then they were attacked by the Assyrians, then they were beaten up by the Babylonians, then they were ground down by the Greeks.

And now the jackboot of Imperial Rome was at their throat. Anyone who stepped out of line could be crucified and many were. It could hardly be worse. This is who Jesus is speaking to and he brings good news. …

There are futurologists now predicting that some babies born today will live to the age of 130. It’s not easy predicting the future.

In 1962 Decca Recording Company declined to sign a band saying, ‘We don’t like their sound, and guitar music is on the way out.’ That band was called the Beatles.

In 1977 Ken Olson, Chairman of Digital Equipment Co., said, ‘There is no reason anyone would want a computer in their home.’

But one thing it doesn’t take a futurologist to work out is that people will always die, even if they live to 130 or 150. 

They might argue over the birth rate in 100 years’ time, but they all agree that the death rate then will be the same as it is today, and always has been; 100%. 

It was Benjamin Franklin who said in 1789, “In this world nothing can be said to be certain, except death and taxes.” Although, as Private Eye pointed out after Ken Dodd passed away last year, in his case not taxes!

But this side of eternity, there will always be death, so there will always be grief.

The word used here is the strongest one there is for ‘mourning’ in the Greek language. The root of it is the word you would use to describe a glass that’s been dropped on a stone floor; it means utterly shattered or smashed to bits.

Jesus is talking about a deep, inward pain that takes hold of you, and crushes you, leaving you shattered and bereft with the gnawing, aching emptiness of loss…

But Jesus says there’s a blessing for those who walk through the valley of the shadow of death.

I want this morning to speak this blessing, in Jesus’ name, over three different kinds of people. Maybe you will relate to one, two, or perhaps all three.

1) Those Who Mourn Life’s Sorrows

Firstly, it’s a promise for anyone in Christ who is literally afflicted by the pain of grief. 

People felt about death in the ancient world just what they think of it today.

The poet Theocritus (3rd Century BC) wrote: “There is hope only for those who are alive, but those who have died are without hope.” (We still say today, “Where there’s life, there’s hope” which derives from this quotation).

And here’s an extract from a letter of sympathy sent 2,000 years ago to a friend grieving a close relative. “I was sorry and wept over the departed one... but nevertheless against such things as death one can do nothing. Therefore comfort one another.”

The tone is one of resignation. It speaks quite pitifully about those whose job it is to comfort - but who have no consolation to offer.

This is the world into which God sent his Son. Our world of cancer and dementia, and heart disease and funerals.

Isaiah saw the ministry of the Messiah as one that would: 

“…bind up the broken hearted…
proclaim the year of the Lord’s favour,
provide for those who grieve
to bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes,
the oil of joy instead of mourning,
and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair.”

Jesus, the anointed one, speaks blessing on the stricken and crushed.

Perhaps because of the huge anti-climax of Christmas, and the overwhelming thought of having to face the realities of another year, statistically, New Year’s Day sees the biggest spike for suicide in the UK.

Three weeks ago, on Boxing Day, somebody I knew committed suicide. I didn’t know him well; I met him on three or four occasions, but he leaves a bereft wife and two young children. It’s just all wrong.

And this blessing for those who mourn is not just for those walking behind the coffin as it’s carried into church. It’s also:

·         for the child who laments their loss of innocence through sexual abuse
·         for the teenager who’s being relentlessly bullied at school
·         for the single person longing for intimacy but overwhelmed by loneliness 
·         for the deserted woman whose husband left her someone else
·         for the couple who are infertile and cannot have children
·         for the man living under the dark cloud of depression

There are so many afflictions in this messed up world. The Bible says that the whole world is under the control of the evil one. Satan and sin just ruin everything. But God’s plan is to bless.

1 Thessalonians 4, written to Christians says, “We grieve, [yes, we do grieve] but not as those who have no hope.” Even Jesus grieved at Lazarus’ tomb. As soon as he saw the grave, he welled up and he wept.

“Jesus wept.” The shortest verse in the Bible. People say it casually, almost as a swear word today, but it’s a precious and holy thing; Jesus enters our deepest, rawest, bitterest human experience and he says, “I know” and he weeps too at the utter ugliness and wretchedness of death. 

The Gospel singer Sheila Walsh once talked about a present she received from a friend.

She says: “When I opened the gift, I wasn’t quite sure what it was. The small glass bottle was a beautiful cobalt blue, about two inches tall, covered in sliver filigree.”

A note explained that it was actually a tear bottle from an antique store in Israel. Tear bottles were common around the time of Christ. Mourners would collect their tears as they walked toward the graveyard to bury their loved one, a keepsake to show how much that person was loved.

She says, “I treasure this little bottle because it reminds me of a profound spiritual truth David wrote about in Psalm 56, at one of the lowest points of his life. David had been captured by enemies in Gath, but he found comfort in the fact that God saw everything he was going through and caught every single tear he shed.”

Do you ever feel alone? Have you ever thought, ‘No one on this earth understands the depth of my suffering?

David knew that God notices every tear and sigh from his children. Do you question that God loves you that much? Or can you rest in that truth today?

We have a heavenly Father who keeps track of all our wanderings and catches in his jar every single tear we cry.

So often in prayer ministry, we see tears begin to silently fall as the Holy Spirit tenderly brings comfort to the afflicted.

2 Corinthians 1 speaks about “the God of all comfort.” Notice that word “all.” There is nothing beyond God’s power to console and bring light. The Holy Spirit is called in Scripture “the Comforter.” This is what he does. The Lord lifts up the fallen.

Some of you may be here this morning broken hearted, carrying the heavy weight of pain and grief. Maybe you haven’t properly mourned a loved one. Maybe you have but you still can’t yet find any relief, any light and hope. The Lord wants to bring release and comfort and healing today. Blessed are those who mourn.

2. Those Who Mourn Over Their Own Sin

Secondly, “blessed are those who mourn for they shall be comforted” is a promise for those who grieve over their own sin.

This doesn’t mean that God wants us to be morbid and melancholy; miserable sinners, and the more miserable the better. No! “The joy of the Lord is your strength” the Bible says.

But you can never fully appreciate how wonderful God’s love is until you have really understood how desperate you are for God’s mercy over your life.

Sandra here, when she was a brand-new Christian, for weeks and weeks, she just sat in church and wept all through the service every Sunday.

The night I became a Christian in July 1979, I’ll never forget it, I just cried and cried, shaking uncontrollably.

I had had no peace with God, I had been a restless wanderer always looking for more, for reality. I was sick of my superficial life with no depth, no integrity. Layer upon layer of vanity and of my fake, wasted life, the sheer mess I had made of things, just came pouring out. Sin is ruin. But, in minutes, those tears became tears of joy. 

In 2 Corinthians 7, Paul talks about this. He says to the Christians in Corinth, “You became sorrowful as God intended… Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death.”

Is there anyone grieving over the emptiness of life, who wants to come to Christ, the way, the truth and the life today. Give your heart to Christ today? Why would you not?

3. Those Who Mourn over society

Thirdly, “blessed are those who mourn for they shall be comforted” is a promise for those who weep over the tragic injustices of society.

The godly Victorian Bishop of Liverpool J.C. Ryle once said, “Others may think it enough to mourn over dead bodies. For my part, I think there is far more cause to mourn over dead souls.“

I’ve seen grown men at prayer meetings bent over and moistening the floor with their tears as they prayed for God’s mercy to fall on their broken, messed up city.

According to the United Nations, an estimated 40 million people are victims of modern slavery; a quarter of them children.

Worldwide, $2.4 trillion are spent annually on an industry that creates or manages violence (the arms industry), while a tiny proportion of that - $175 billion - would eradicate world hunger with one investment.

In Psalm 119 the writer says, “Lord, I weep rivers of tears because your law is not kept.”

Jeremiah, the longest book in the Bible, is a book drenched with tears. He is called the weeping prophet. “Oh, that my head were a spring of water and my eyes a fountain of tears, I would weep day and night” he says, and he goes on to list all that’s broken in the country he loves; murder, unfaithfulness, lies, deceit, slander and no fear of God.

Jesus wept over Jerusalem and its stubborn unbelief. It was grievous to him. He saw they were going to reject him, their Messiah, and so forego the only opportunity they’d get to be made right with God.

The Chaplain General to the UK prison service said that when he first went into the prisons, he thought he would take Jesus in with him. He thought they’d be so dark, so hopeless, so Godforsaken that when he came in as a Christian, people would see the difference.

But do you know what he said? He said, “I realized, after about a week, that Jesus was already there!” Already present with the lowest of the low. God is doing amazing things in our prisons, did you know that?

When we grieve and look to Jesus, he sends his Spirit to enfold us in love. Prayers do effect change. Jesus is coming back. And when he does, the Bible says, “God will wipe away every tear from our eyes.”

Ending

A testimony to end. In 1994, as civil war wreaked havoc in Burundi, a nurse in the public lavatories of a hospital spotted something moving in the toilet. 

It was a premature baby that had been thrown away. Somehow it was still alive. She fished the baby out of the toilet bowl, washed it in water, and contacted a Christian missionary called Chrissie Chapman.

Chrissie took the baby, five days old, and weighing 5lb and named her Grace. Grace had to have antibiotics because the open end of the umbilical cord had been in contact with the toilet water. Sadly, that probably led to Grace losing her hearing. She was totally deaf.

When Grace was 6 months old, a travelling evangelist came by and offered to pray for her. He anointed her ears with oil and prayed for Grace’s hearing to be restored in the name of Jesus.

It seemed to make her worse! For the next three days, Grace screamed every minute she was awake. Nobody knew what to do.

It was only when someone accidentally slammed a door and Grace suddenly jolted that they realized her tears and screams were because she had been healed and could now hear everything around her.

That was 1994. Grace has matured into a beautiful and intelligent young woman, full of faith. She finished school with good grades and was awarded a University scholarship.

Grace says that God has big plans for her life. She’s committed to praying and working for the healing and transformation of Burundi.

Our God brings life out of death. “Blessed are those who mourn. They shall be comforted.”

Let’s pray…


Sermon preached at All Saints' Preston on Tees, 13 January 2019


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